Sunday, April 22, 2018

Hurry Up and Wait

I'll start with a caveat to this whole post - all four of us have been remarkably patient and forgiving with this process and with each other (you know us, this is a huge win) so what follows is just a sharing of reality but know that we are actually smiling, laughing, and loving a lot.

As anyone who has traveled or relocated knows, there is a great deal of "hurry" and an even greater deal of "wait".  Whether it's at the airport, getting the logistics of life arranged, or getting acclimated to local culture, food, and people there seems to be an endless list of things to do, people to contact, and time to pass until things settle.  You won't be surprised that Abe and I have felt an incredible desire get as many of the logistical items in place as quickly as possible in hopes that the less tangible adjustments will come easier or at least we will be more patient with them.  So we worked before we came to arrange for our "permanent" location, housing, and schools to be in place when we arrived.  Abe scurried about when we arrived to set up a local phone, internet, library access, etc.... We started the kids in school within days of arriving (how 'bout that picture of the kids in their uniforms?!) We stocked the house the day we moved in with home goods and groceries - and are now looking forward to a home cooked dinner tonight or tomorrow!  Coupled with jumping right into working for me, it's been quite a bit of hurry! And now we wait...

Where's the grocery store and when the heck is it open? When will we understand the flow of the city? When will we get internet (aka more FaceTime and more blog posts)? When will the rest of our stuff (most importantly more hangers and for Zev, the Wii) arrive? When will we understand what the heck is written on the laundry detergent bottles (am I right Julie and Aaron)? When will we make it back to crossfit? When will we ever get those kids to bed at a reasonable hour?!

And per usual from Zev and Ariana: When can I have screen time? When is my next meal since I just ate 3 minutes ago? When do we get to do something really really actually for real FUN (for the record...we have)? When can I have screen time?

On the positive end, the people here have been so kind, friendly, and helpful (except for customer service people...ironic, eh?) They are welcoming and full of advice and patience with our asking them to repeat themselves or asking what a "bap" is (a bread roll for the record).  The schools have been fantastic and are embracing our kids beautifully.  When we stumble, we just laugh and look at one another and say "ok, now we know".  Our mantra is definitely "It won't all be right at once but we'll get there eventually".  So we'll continue to hurry and jump right in and then we'll wait as everything will slowly fall into place.

For some fun stuff - here are some pictures of our travels (talk about hurry up and wait!) and our epic luggage train.





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